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I was a nice little girl, doing very well at school, polite with the neighbors, helpful at home, so it was rather difficult to keep finding sins for our weekly confession. But because human beings are profoundly sinful by birth, they told me <a title="nike air max all black leather" href="http://www.airmax-canada.com/nike-air-max-black-sale.html">nike air max all black leather</a> , I had to go confess anyway. The nuns at school came up with a solution to help us out: they "prepared" our sins for us. Every Wednesday, on confession day, they gave us a pink paper with our "confessions of the day." I remember feeling sorry for the poor priest, hidden in his little black cabin, spending the entire day listening to the confessions of 600 little girls, endlessly repeating the same sins over and over... Growing up, I figured something was missing. 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When I finally came up with the explanation, it changed my life forever! There are two important differences between them and us. The first difference is that they have a social network to help everyone in the village. They stick together. They don't push out people who don't fit the norm. In our society, everybody who is a bit different is sent to an "institution." An institution is a place to collect those individuals who cannot follow the fast pace of society and thus fall out of the boat. Most institutions have great walls to prevent us from "seeing" that these people really exist. They look more like a prison than a shelter. Who are these people that don't fit in our society, put away behind walls so we don't have to confront them? 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They have a strong faith in a god who takes care of them. They spend a lot of time performing rituals to please their god(s) and get good health and harvest in return. I gave these two differences a lot of thought and concluded that creating social networks of people and a solid relationship with something bigger than ourselves, are vitally important fundaments of human happiness. It's all about "connection." Connection to each other. Connection to the Universe. In the meantime I found out that good things can happen only when we stay connected to each other and to the Universe. I started studying the Laws of the Universe and spent a lot of energy helping people establish a connection to each other and to the Universe. In fact, this became the very purpose of my life. Many people think they are alone, without help <a title="nike air max 90 floral" href="http://www.airmax-canada.com/nike-air-max-90-print.html">nike air max 90 floral</a> , and have to do everything by themselves. 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